engagement

We knew in our hearts that this young lady
would someday be part of our family.
Now it is official, he has proposed. We are overjoyed.

the moment in the middle

Hold your breath.
Here it is.
Christmas Eve.
My favorite time of the Christmas Season.
The perfect moment between all the preparations and all of the celebrations.

All is done yet all is yet to come . . .

"It was a moment of perfection he would probably not find again this year, and he sat without moving, almost without breathing. There was the upside of a garden, when one was digging and planting, heaving and hauling, and then the downside, when it was all weeding and grooming and watering and sweating. One had to be fleet to catch the moment in the middle, the mountaintop, when perfection was as brief as the visit of a butterfly to an outstretched palm.

From the book : Out to Cannan

by: Jan Karon

buffalo chex mix

A new tradition has been started with the discovery of this recipe . . .

Buffalo Chex Mix Recipe

4 cups Rice Chex® cereal
4 cups Corn Chex® cereal
2 cups Parmesan-flavored tiny fish-shaped crackers
2 cups mini pretzels
1 cup nuts
6 tablespoons butter or margarine
2 tablespoons Chicken Wing Sauce
2 teaspoons seasoned salt 2 teaspoons celery seed

In large microwavable bowl (or brown paper grocery bag cut to fit in microwave), mix cereals, nuts, pretzels and fish crackers; set aside. In small microwavable bowl, microwave butter uncovered on High about 40 seconds or until melted. Stir in seasonings. Pour over cereal mixture; stir (shake) until evenly coated.

Microwave Directions: Microwave uncovered on High 5 to 6 minutes, thoroughly stirring/ shaking every 2 minutes. If using a paper bag, put the cut off top piece under the bag to absorb grease. Spread on newspaper to cool. Store in airtight container.

warmth

In an effort to keep more heat downstairs I was looking for curtains to cover our archway. I found these panels at a flea market, 4 for $35 - such a deal! Even though I think french doors would be the ultimate solution I do love this cozy look for winter. Oh yes . . . that is the Buffalo Bills on the TV as we cross our fingers for a win.

from me to you

family scrabble

miniature tree

What a fun surprise I had on Friday to receive this little tree as a gift. It is from a new teacher in my school that I have worked with the past 10 weeks. She made it herself from pine boughs and mini ornaments. She is lovely young lady and so creative. I LOVE it. Thank you Sarah.

twenty-eight

1983

This is my child with mission in her heart and an amazing depth of spirit. Her mission work has taken her to Taylor University IN, Seattle WA, Vancouver BC, Terrace BC, New York City and now Phnom Penh, Cambodia. I am truly awed by this child. She is everything I strive to be. Ever since she was a little girl she has been the social director of our family and her friends. This remain the same in her adult life. She keeps things organized and makes sure that all her friends are entertained and well cared for. She understands the joy of ordinary moments. She is an amazing, intelligent, thoughtful woman. When she, my first-born, joined our family my life changed forever. Being a mom to her and her brothers has enriched me more than they can ever imagine.
I am so honored to be her mother.
I am so proud to be her mother.
I am so grateful to be her mother.
Now she is out there in the world - I pray for her to have a joyful life. I hope she knows how much she is loved.

closet move in

I know that January is the traditional month to "get organized" but my retired husband and I spent this Saturday turning an old storeroom into a new closet. This of course is after he has spent many weeks relocating the stored stuff, painting and having carpet installed. And now . . . add clothes!

hastings hats

Below is a very easy crochet pattern for a simple winter hat. I keep a basket of these handy and am delighted when friends and family take one. They are particularly popular with my children and my nephews.

Hastings Holiday Crocheted Hat
4 ply yarn medium weight yarn
as many colors as desired
crochet hook size J or I (for smaller hat)

Center of crown : ch 4 and join into ring with a slip st.
Rnd 1 Ch 1, 6 sc in ring. Slip st to join to 1st sc. (Mark for beg of round.)
Rnd 2 Ch 1, 2 sc (go through the top 2 loops) in each sc around. Join with slip stitch. (12st)
Rnd 3 Ch 1, (2 sc in next sc, 1 in next) repeat around. Join. (18st)Rnd 4 Ch 1, (2 sc in next sc, 1in next 2) repeat around. Join. (24st)
Rnd 5 Ch 1, (2 sc in next sc, 1 in next 3) repeat around. Join. (30st)
Rnd 6 Ch 1, (2 sc in next sc, 1 in next 4) repeat around. Join. (36st)
Rnd 7 Ch 1, (2 sc in next sc, 1 in next 5) repeat around. Join. (42sts)
Rnd 8 Ch 1, (2 sc in next sc, 1 in next 6) repeat around. Join. (48sts)
Rnd 9 Ch 1, (2 sc in next sc, 1 in next 7) repeat around. Join. (54sts)
Rnd 10 Ch 1, (2 sc in next sc, 1 in next 8) repeat around. Join. (60sts)
Rnd 11 Ch 1, (2 sc in next sc, 1 in next 9) repeat around. Join. (66sts)

If you don’t yet have 66 stitches, increase evenly spaced around hat until you have 66 stitches

Any time you want to add a new color: Join color new color with a slipstitch at the beginning of any row.

Continue until length of hat from top to rim measures 7 inches (usually about 29 rows) or your preference

Finish off (Weave in and tie off all loose ends)

Abbreviations beg = begin(ning) ch = chain rep = repeat(s) rnd(s) = round(s)sc = single crochetst(s) = stitch(es)

Optional
Adding Ear flaps: Mark center front of hat with a scrap of yarn.
Count 11 stitches from center on left side of hat. With outside of hat facing you attach yarn with a slip stitch to this loop.
Row 1 Ch 1, sc in next 14 stitches. Ch 1, turn
Row 2 Sc in same stitch as ch 1 and in next 14 stitches. Ch 1, turn
Row 3 Skip first stitch, sc in each of next 13 stitches. (this decreases row by 1) Ch 1, turn
Row 4 Skip first stitch, sc in each of next 12 stitches. (this decreases row by 1) Ch 1, turn
Row 5 Skip first stitch, sc in each of next 11 stitches. (this decreases row by 1) Ch 1, turn
Repeat until you have 2 stitches left. Fasten off.

Add ear flap to other side by repeating the above rows on the right side. Make beginning and ending of ear flaps match on each side.

Edging:
Join yarn to back of hat.
Sc around hat to the tip of the first ear flap.
Chain 36 stitches to make tie. Sc in second chain from hook and sc in each chain until you get back to the ear flap.
Sc in tip of ear flap and continue around until you get to the tip of second ear flap.
Chain 36 stitches to make second tie. Sc in second chain from hook and sc in each chain until you get back to the ear flap.
Continue around hat until the edging meets at the back of the hat. Finish off.
Weave in and tie off all loose ends


If you want to add a Brim (instead of earflaps): Inc Rnd (1 sc in each of next 5 sc, 2 sc in next sc) 10 times - 70 sts. Work even until brim measures
2 3/4". Change to smaller hook and work 1 rnd rev sc (from LEFT to RIGHT). Fasten off.

tears

thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is the holiday of peace, the celebration of work and the simple life... a true folk-festival that speaks the poetry of the turn of the seasons, the beauty of seedtime and harvest, the ripe product of the year - and the deep, deep connection of all these things with God. -- Ray Stannard Baker (David Grayson)

the sadness of lost respect

Martha Stewart Disses Rachel Ray and Sarah Palin

In our third grade character education program we teach children not to put someone else down to make yourself look better. Apparently Martha Stewart must have missed that lesson . . .

She dismissed Rachel Ray as not worthy of the title of TV chef: "Well, to me, she professed that she could not bake. She just did a new cookbook which is just a re-edit of a lot of her old recipes, and that's not good enough for me. I mean, I really want to write a book that is a unique and lasting thing. Something that will really fulfill a need in someone's library," Stewart said in a “Nightline” Interview.

And then, no matter how you feel about Sarah Palin, this was just plain mean . . .

Martha used bitter language to describe Sarah in a red carpet chat with CNN’s Headline News: “She’s very boring to me, very boring. And a very, to me, kind of a dangerous person. I mean, she’s dangerous. She speaks, she’s, she’s so confused. And anyone like that is a real problem. I wouldn’t watch her if you paid me,” Stewart spat.

Now, I won't watch Martha Stewart.

fifty

When I turned 50 my cousin Renee sent me this poem.
Ever since I have shared it with my friends as they turned 50.
Now . . . it is her turn.
Happy Birthday Renee

What then? Shall we sit idly down and say
The night hath come; it is no longer day?
The night hath not yet come; we are not quite
Cut off from labor by the failing light;
Something remains for us to do or dare;
Even the oldest tree some fruit may bear;

But other something, would we but begin;
For age is opportunity no less
Than youth itself, though in another dress,
And as the evening twilight fades away
The sky is filled with stars, invisible by day.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807-1882) from: Morituii Salutamus

halloween

Now that my children are grown and gone

I have to resort to dressing up my dolls.Here is Alex fitting right in with the Patty Playpals.